The feeling things happen to us without being able to control it. Or external situations or people being responsible for our wellbeing or pain. We give away our power by (unconsciously) thinking the solution lies outside of ourselves. ‘If the other does this’ or ‘If this will change, I can finally..’.
Victim consciousness often starts in childhood, when things happen that are unfair or harmful. As children we usually blame this on ourselves because of loyalty to caregivers and dependency on the outside world to get our physical and emotional needs fulfilled.
This process often happens on an unconscious level, as children only develop their conscious mind from between 3 to 6 years old. A lot of adults aren’t aware they operate from this consciousness still.
As we move into a new energy in the world, full responsibility and embodying our sovereignity is the way to go. That means integrating the inner child, so we can be healthy and balanced adults. Turning inwards and finding the attachment that may be released for you to stand fully in your power.
If you are ready for this, I would love to guide and hold space for you along the way. Book a free exploration call now, so we can talk if and how that would be helpful for you!
